nudge

i'm not perfect and i know i'll never be. but i can get close to it if you help and support me. don't judge based on what your eyes can only see. a picture can say a thousand words and not one describing me. nothing is ever what you assumed it would be. if you want to know take the time to find out sincerely.

have you ever noticed that the greatest comedians are those whose life is in shambles? we laugh and pretend we are okay even though we are not. society praises only the strong. weakness belittled and shoved away. never talked about again. superficial relations come a plenty. and so does empty advices that help no one. within ourselves secrets kept. too fearful of being found and be judged harshly. hard to find someone who will listen and understand. and so we bleed solely within. noone realizing our pain.

next time you are around those who you truly care about wonder out loud. take the time to connect and bridge over gaps lost while we are too busy living our own lives. someone is reaching out. and that person is fearful of rejection from you for feeling an emotion. did you take the time to look? did you see me? did you take the time to know? do you get me?

glass half empty. glass half full. how do you see your life? honestly...eyes wide shut.

Choice

"someday,your heart will tell you what to do" -Achaan Chah

Today,I'll take the time to make choices based on my own needs and the needs that result from specific situations. Because of my past,sometimes i let myself be overwhelmed by the demands and needs of others.

In this past, i have made hasty choices which later had an affect on my life. Now i know that i can say "yes", "no", "maybe" or i cant decide right now"

i give myself the luxury of choosing at my own pace. Today, I chose to listen to myself.

From now on, I consider my choices intelligent and important. I take the time to make the choices that are right for me and proud of myself. i trust myself and my focus is choosing wisely,without haste.

Relationship

Relationship must be reinvented each day and each year .The new year is the opportunity ti pursue our journey as a couple.

We have lived through all kinds of experiences and we have overcome a number of challenges. We can use this firstday of the year to strengthen our commitment by proclaiming our resolve to stay together.

We know that despite its ups and downs,life as a couple is much more enriching and satisfying than life alone.

Learn how to renew your love for your partner...

Watch your words

There are those who speak rashly,like piercing of sword, but the tounge of the wise brings healing ..
proverbs12:18

Your life is greatly impacted by the words that has been spoken to you,Likewise,your words impact the livesof those around you.-

Many people have been crippled with insecurity because their parent spoke words of judgement,critism and failure to them. These wounded people can be healed by recieving God's unconditional love, but it takes time to overcome the wrong image they have of themselves.

That is whyit is important to use your words for blessings, healing and building up instead of for cursing, wounding and tearing down.

If you've been wounded by words, be quick to recieve God's unconditional love. Let him heal any unhealthy images you may have of yourself. If you have been fortunate enough to escape such damage, determine that the words will bring blessing and healing to others.

So its my first post

Im quite happy that i will be blogging again, My life is a little bit boring. So i may say..but whose not? we have those times in our life that we need to unwind and be ourself but we cant because well, theres a lot of circumstances and everything has its reason.. anyway, You'll be seing a lot of me here... not by images.. but by writing!